13 Steps to Get Through Burnout During My 14-Day COVID-19 Quarantine

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I stumbled out of my bed while dizzy and nauseous, surprised that I was so sick. Yeah, I’ll be honest and admit I had been having a mild cough the last few days, a runny nose and chronic fatigue the last week or so.

I had gone back and forth to the bathroom four times. While lying in the bed and doing deep breathing, between each vomiting session, the dizziness and nausea eventually subsided, yet I was extremely fatigued.

I mustered the strength to pick up my iPhone, go search my contacts for my boss’s number to call and let her know I wouldn’t be coming in the office that day.

I was now wondering if my symptoms could be that of COVID-19. I then called my daughter, a nurse practitioner, to discuss my symptoms. My daughter advised me to call the nearest Emergency Room (ER) to speak with someone and tell them about my symptoms and pre-existing medical conditions to see if I should go there to be tested for COVID-19.

I called the ER at one of the local hospitals. I was told by a nurse to contact my primary physician because it wouldn’t be wise for me to come to the ER because if I didn’t already have COVID-19, there is a high probability I would get it while there. She also said that it was at the discretion of the doctors to test for COVID-19 or not.

After being examined by my primary physician, I was told I presented with some symptoms of COVID-19, but since his office didn’t actually administer the test it couldn’t be confirmed. He then said because of my chronic medical conditions, that I should quarantine for fourteen days. My doctor also advised me not to go to the ER for fear that I could get COVID-19, if I didn’t already have it.

I was now back at home and feeling better yet queasy and extremely fatigued. While in deep thought the scripture Romans 8:28 (KJV), “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purpose” quickly came to mind. So, it was then I realized that something positive would come out of me being quarantined.

I decided to use this time to address the symptoms of burnout I’d been experiencing for a while and just didn’t want to address.

According to the article “The Tell Tale Signs of Burnout ... Do You Have Them?” written by Sherrie Bourgeois Carter Psy.D., burnout is defined as “a state of chronic stress that leads to:

●       Physical and emotional exhaustion

●       Cynicism and detachment

●       Feelings of ineffectiveness and lack of accomplishment”

Burnout doesn’t happen at once and I had been experiencing symptoms of feeling exhausted much of the time and engaging in escapist behaviors such as binge-watching Netflix. I also was experiencing increased anxiety, as well as, insomnia, and being cynical and easily irritated longer than I wanted to admit.

You see, I experienced burnout a few decades ago which required me to take a leave of absence from work, so I knew firsthand what would happen if I did not deal with the symptoms I was currently experiencing. Therefore, I decided to use the time to recover effectively from burnout, since I know that it does not go away on its own, to get refocused, refreshed and renewed.

In doing so, I did the following:

1. Rested and slept as much as possible without putting any expectations on myself
2. Participated in deep introspection, soul searching and self-reflection
3. Engaged in cathartic and mindful journal writing
4. Limited my time on social media
5. Reassessed my goals
6. Read some scriptures in the Bible and positive affirmations
7. Re-read the book Fervent: A Woman’s Battle Plan for Serious, Specific, and Strategic Prayer by Priscilla Shirer and this time took copious notes
8. Set healthy boundaries with others
9. Brainstormed blog topics to write about
10. Cleaned my house and did some organizing of paperwork
11. Went walking in my neighborhood to boost my mood while at the same time ensuring that I was social distancing myself from others
12. Scheduled a teletherapy session with my therapist
13. Prayed, prayed and prayed some more

I now feel refocused, refreshed and renewed, because I made it a priority during the quarantine to rest my mind, body and soul and make self-care a number one priority.

If you too have been quarantined due to the coronavirus pandemic and are exhibiting signs of burnout, feel free to use some of the tips above to help prevent it.